Networking For Work Purpose

Hello there, we meet again.

I'm working. And I need to do this activity ' Networking'.

I hate it, I have to smile and find clever things to say,while searching for jargon words to convey my ideas. I have to shake hands to other people, have to research their company to know about them, follow the latest news about the world.. When I just want to text my boyfriend and sit in the corner eating ice cream and maybe drink some mango juice.

So if you hate networking, same here. You're not alone.

Tips To Woo Your Crush~

Hello~

I'm not a master in this, but I did try some of the tips, and it work. 98%, it will work.

Forget about those tips you have to look pretty whenever you see him,or know how to cook,bla bla bla. I did those, and what did I get? Crappy dude who just want to play with me. Instead, be a BITCH. Not a Hooker-Bitch, but I-have-my-rights-Bitch.

1. Family

If you can, don't meet his family until you got engaged, or you've been together for 2 years or more. Less Christmas Gathering is better. It's not that you don't like them, but take your time. You will meet them for the rest of your life later. And don't bring him to meet your family either. WAIT.

2. His Hobby

Be on your ground. Don't simply like basketball (when you never like before) just because of him. But don't be so honest too telling him 'Basketball is a stupid game' or etc. Instead, make him like your hobby.

3. Lovey-Dovey

Yes. Be lovey-dovey whenever needed. Guys love to be pampered. But don't be a slave to him. Man nowadays don't want stupid girls to be their long-time-darling. And don't 'merajuk sampai gila' too. Merajuk for a while is cute, but many time and all the time? Hey look, he's running saying goodbye.

4. Time

If he's late for a date maybe for 1 hour,just leave and say you got work to do. Play hard to get. Don't be stupid waiting for him. It means your time is cheap. It means you're own by him when you innocently waiting for him. But if he's late for several minutes, don't be an angry monster because sometimes he really have things to do. If he call you after 10pm, don't accept. Just text him the next morning, " I sleep at 10pm, call me before I sleep" (it works). You will gain some respect sista..! If he reply your text late, reply him late too. Monkey see, monkey do. Just do the same.

5.Ego

Guys have ego. So don't simply pay something if he want to pay. Respect the mindset of a guy that he can support a woman and protect a woman.

6. Flattery

If he have nice cars, don't simply say 'I love your car'. He thinks you like him because of his car. Instead, after he send you home, just say " Thanks for sending me, I enjoy myself tonight". Never-ever look at his car while saying that. He will feel appreciated.

7. Showing some weakness

Guys LOVE to be the Hero of a story. So sometimes, you have to show them you're weak even when you're not. For instance, you can't open the cover of a bottle(shows that you're weak), and then he open it for you. After that you say "Thank's! Thank goodness you're here :)" He will feel like he's the Hero. O wow!

8. Pretty

No matter how pretty you are, or how much make-up you wear, it doesn't make him anymore loving you. I make myself hell pretty for someone last time, and he end up feeling bored. He cheat on me and hook up with someone prettier than me. He leaves her for another pretty girl. Conclusion? Being pretty is not the key. Play hard to get.  You will feel proud parading your car that you buy on your own money than the car that your mom bought for you. Right? So be expensive.

That's all for now. Thank you for reading! :)

DREAM GUY~

A very good (wuteva your day might be), today i will writing about hot-handsome guys :)

I met this one guy recently, and mostly early month of this year.. He looks so much like my dream guy. Tall, lean, wearing specs ( yippie~~), thin but not so thin (like anime) and he's the head of 'a' group :p

I like looking at him,even in talks/seminar I will secretly look at him. It's not like I'm trying to cheat my bf, but I just cant believe my dream guy become a reality! But anyway, Sanchez, if you're reading this, I want you to know that I love you hubby. He have the looks but you have my heart.

I shake his hand once, and I smile talking to him. I mean, gosh,you are so REAL my dream guy, and right now, you have a name!

I dont want to say his name out loud coz..ehemm..people know him.haha~ Anyway, I hope I will be meeting him less coz I dont wanna look like a fool (smiling alone) whenever I see him. Like my mother say to every handsome/beautiful people she sees ' You are pleasing to the eyes', and thats what I felt.

Bye!

FAITH

Faith is something weird. I am a Christian, and i believe in God. As I am getting matured a.k.a OLD, I notice that different people have different thoughts about faith. Many religion fights and argue especially Muslim and Christian (I don't know why since both religion start with Abraham). But what I want to point out here is, and it might be very disturbing, Christian people pull down their own people. I notice that in my community. People want to pull me down when I have different opinion, they started to have 'thoughts' and 'what she should have done' or 'i think someone else is better'.

My boyfriend is Anglican and I'm Catholic, I don't mind the differences since we follow the same God. Jesus said, "Follow Me. I am the ONLY way to the Father". He didn't say "Follow Catholic. It's the ONLY way to the Father". So, I am following Jesus.

I post in my FB recently about faith, then suddenly this guy commenting on my post, loooooooonnnggg comment about faith, about the do's and don'ts, telling me that Jesus loooovvveees me and being so sarcastic. I'm this close to comment back that I know what I meant, and he just freakin cannot accept anyone's opinion. Don't use Jesus name to say that I'm wrong when you only want to say your own piece of mind. Nasihat is about building up, not pulling down. If you are thinking what did I post, its a sharing about a homily from Father 'tut...' that says "everyone can be hypocrite, they pretend to close their eyes and pray when they did horrible things outside the church".

Clearly they don't get my messsage, they just hentam me and say I'm wrong.I am QUOTING what father said. Anyway, I block that person. He did that again to another post of mine about faith too, I don't see anything wrong with my post, but I don't know, he just want to say crap and maybe he want me to be like him.

KARMA

Har-har-har!
What people say about karma when everything goes around comes around?? It's true! Hey my ex,how do you feel now?

Lalalalalalalalala~ Anyway,I notice my ex checking my facebook profile and liking my status (which he never do). I recently had a big fight with my bf and i delete my status to "          ".That means blank. Well, we are back to normal (short fight which is stupid, then he delete his facebook forever.) Now I don't have anyone to have a relationship with. haha~

Back to my ex, he is so hurtful.Every relationship he involves in end up DESTROYED.When will he realized it's him that needs to change? The last gir he have relationship with (he cheats on me with this girl) is nice (bueekk). But she is nice, the truth. Yet still they don't manage to go on.

Dear Ex, you have to change. Everything don't need to be following your way. All girls are different. Not everyone can be compare to your 'EX' which you like the most last time.

BYE.

Unduk Ngadau Tombovo

Dear readers,
I just won a KadazanDusun beauty pageant recently. The piala is so huge, i find it hard to carry actually.

See..im telling the truth

Anyway, i have my first day period on that day which i only knew when Charles( make-up artist) do my face. I have cramps backstage, and i almost cry for all the pain from the tangkong (belts), himpogot and period.
When i go back home, i found out the pin i use so the shirt stick with the skirt are open (terbuka). So the needle is poking me all this time, and that adds up the pain i felt.

TOP 8

That's the top 8! I look faaaatttt.. haha~ The one with the hats are traditional costume from Papar district. Beside me is using..uhmm.. I donow but most of us are wearing KadazanDusun traditional costume from Penampang.

I finally sit on that chair!

Anyway, i finally won :P I pray really hard coz I want that crown and the money. Money for thesis baby..haha~

I like the contestant this one, coz they are all very nice. They know I have cramps from period and they help me.No jealousy or talking behind others back. I like it!

Thanks judges, thanks Charles, thanks mummy (for money) and thank my beautiful family for being there walaupun saya kasi abis duit kamu :P

KILL THESIS NOW

I am so fed up with doing and correcting thesis. It is damn boring and I really hate it so much. I feel like I just want to throw away my thesis and let Paragasu (our house dog) eat it. Then maybe I give him my laptop for dinner..

With all this formatting, and comparing to others study, and money to use for printing, the hard-cover again.. haish... I can't use my money while I'm dating just now coz I have to have enough money for that damn thesis! And Sanchez can't spend money for me so much too coz he got his thesis also! Haish haish haish haish...

I want to eat in Kenny Rogers pun I can't, so we eat at Pizza Hut. Heyaa... THESIS!! I will burn you after this!